Do Love Needs A Reason???

Lots of people said that love is blind, but i say NO. Love is just antonym of Hate. That is the meaning of Love, when you love someone means you like something from him/her. Fuck you all who said that love is blind.
 
helky said:
Lots of people said that love is blind, but i say NO. Love is just antonym of Hate. That is the meaning of Love, when you love someone means you like something from him/her. Fuck you all who said that love is blind.
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I think You have misunderstood about definition 'blind' in love. When love is blind those who are inlove don't see race, religion, physical imperfections like weight or beauty age etc. For many love is not blind because they can't get past the things I have mentioned above. Especially race and physical imperfections. as we grow older though some learn to be more accepting of many of the factors that prevent love from being blind. When love is truly blind it shouldn't matter that their skin is a diffrent color, or they are 100 Kgs over their ideal weight or 50 Kgs under it. It shouldn't matter that on the outside someone is not physically beautiful. We shouldn't care that someone is 30 years older or younger than us of course that is unless that would make one party a minor then we should care.

Too often so many of us are unwilling to relax our standards of who we will be in a relationship with. Frankly it is quite sad when many of us do that because we miss out on opportunities to be with someone who could be our perfect match in almost every way except they aren't the right race religion weight aren't pretty or handsome enough etc. The world would be a much better place and less people would be alone in this world if we all just learned to relax our standards a little bit and not let such silliness stand in our way of opening our hearts to someone.

Anyway, let's talk an origin phrase about 'love is blind'. This was coined by Shakespeare and was quite a favourite line of his. It appears in several of his plays, including Two Gentlemen of Verona, Henry V and The Merchant Of Venice. For example, this piece from The Merchant Of Venice, 1596:
JESSICA: Here, catch this casket; it is worth the pains.
I am glad 'tis night, you do not look on me,
For I am much ashamed of my exchange:
But love is blind and lovers cannot see
The pretty follies that themselves commit;
For if they could, Cupid himself would blush
To see me thus transformed to a boy.

Modern-day research supports the view that the blindness of love is not just a figurative matter. A research study by University College London found that feelings of love suppressed the activity of the areas of the brain that control critical thought.

helky said:
Fuck you all who said that love is blind.
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Who do you think you are???
everyone can issue an opinion. And you have no right to say so.

Behave. And Watch your language.

-dipi-
 
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Oops, I didn't recognize that this is an english room. I was post in Bahasa Indonesia before, sorry
 
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hmm...talking about love is one of the most interesting things in the world. I say it the most because i believe everyone especially me, needs love. For instance, we need love for growing become adults. Our parents have planted love in our heart just for a reason so that we, as adults too, give the love to our descendant. Frankly, love is not just about having sex between a couple. It has wider meanings since love derived from our activity to have inter relation between humans.

"Love is blind"....yeah, this statement is right, but not totally right. We still can be loving someone because there are some reason. Due to an appearance, a beauty, a money, or a future career, we can learn to love others. So, in my opinion, love is not just a heritage from our beloved ancestor, but it can be learned from formal or informal.
 
"I don't know. If being in love only made people more lonely, why would everyone want it so much?"
"Because of the illusion. You fall in love, it's intoxicating, and for a little while you feel like you've actually become one with the other person. Merged souls, and so on. You think you'll never be alone again. Only it doesn't last and soon you realize you can only get so close, and you end up brutally disappointed, more alone than ever, because the illusion-the hope you'd held on to all those years-has been shattered."

This is a quote I chanced upon on Tumblr, hope it helps.

I wanted to say that it's really important to love yourself first, and that way, when you're hurt, you will know that you yourself is far more precious than the people who hurt you. You will know that they're not worth it at all, and you will be fine with or without them.
Because you are not the reflection of those that can't love you:)

Hope what I said helps in every other way.

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