Apa kamu bahagia dengan kehidupan kamu sekarang??

wnks said:
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see? I understand for being Indonesian is not easy; familly and people around us sometimes influent us! That is OK. and nothing wrong with that, good things sometimes comes out of it!
Stick for what you believe. Respect people around you without making you cheap!
open minded is best way to do; you don't have to agree with other if you not! doesn't mean what you choose always better; but at least you learned out of it.
The real you is you, don't copy cat others; you don't have to look "present" when you are not! choose what makes your comfort and understanding the consequencies
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I get GREAT influent from my frens... And it's a bad way (my mom told like that...)
I can't clearly say : "I disagree with you..."
Because it's breaking the rules...

I comfort to be me
But if I still wanna be me, I will suck and live alone
I know it's a foolish thing, but I swear, this is really happened to me
And maybe will happen forever... >:'(
 
For wnks, gue mau ngelamar ahhh...
"Do you wannabe my father...?"
Hahaha, soalnya biasanya gue suka diskusi ini sama bokap gue
Tapi dia udah meninggal sebulan yang lalu

So, it's me... I don't have aim anymore like b4
Gue kehilangan pegangan dan kendali...
 
satyanagarabhakti said:
I get GREAT influent from my frens... And it's a bad way (my mom told like that...)
I can't clearly say : "I disagree with you..."
Because it's breaking the rules...

I comfort to be me
But if I still wanna be me, I will suck and live alone
I know it's a foolish thing, but I swear, this is really happened to me
And maybe will happen forever... >:'(
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then if you knew that you got bad influents from your "friends" then definitely you've got to stop it! being mature and choose whats suit you!
I have friends from different background (some of 'em are drugs users...) I am very clear with them whenever they ahnging out with me; it has to be drugs free.
I tying to make them understand that drugs is useless; but once again; who am I to judge people?
don't be afraid to speak up your mind... you will end up and live alone? nonsense!
 
wnks said:
then if you knew that you got bad influents from your "friends" then definitely you've got to stop it! being mature and choose whats suit you!
I have friends from different background (some of 'em are drugs users...) I am very clear with them whenever they ahnging out with me; it has to be drugs free.
I tying to make them understand that drugs is useless; but once again; who am I to judge people?
don't be afraid to speak up your mind... you will end up and live alone? nonsense!
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That's my big weakness and slow but sure kill me... My mom said "You're never being mature...". And it gives me big suggestion
Kalau gue harus ngejauhin temen-temen gue, gue enggak bisa... Ada satu hal yang enggak bisa gue jelasin (kalau gue jelasin, ketahuanlah masalah gue. Ntar masuk infotainment...)
OK, I'll try to be me right here right now!!!!!!!! YEAHHHH!!!
(If I can and if God gives me strength for that...)
I think it's a huge step (and danger step)
Gue enggak mau jadi geek atau underground diantara temen2
Gue enggak mau dicap looser, because I'm not!!!!
Ada yang bilang saya terkena doktrin. But I'm not sure that happened to me...
 
satyanagarabhakti said:
That's my big weakness and slow but sure kill me... My mom said "You're never being mature...". And it gives me big suggestion
Kalau gue harus ngejauhin temen-temen gue, gue enggak bisa... Ada satu hal yang enggak bisa gue jelasin (kalau gue jelasin, ketahuanlah masalah gue. Ntar masuk infotainment...)
OK, I'll try to be me right here right now!!!!!!!! YEAHHHH!!!
(If I can and if God gives me strength for that...)
I think it's a huge step (and danger step)
Gue enggak mau jadi geek atau underground diantara temen2
Gue enggak mau dicap looser, because I'm not!!!!
Ada yang bilang saya terkena doktrin. But I'm not sure that happened to me...
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surely u said that you don't want it to be a loser because you are not; than prove it?
being mature it is not always making decision by your own, it can be also accepting other opinion without losing your own ground.
God is a very good sugestive; although I never believe in that! but you may start with your faith (religions and believeness)
you can pm me if you like and we can talked about your problem see how you handle it!
 
entahlah aku aja sendiri binggung aku bahagia atau belom...
aku belom menemukan arti hidupku dan untuk apa?

aku belom merasa berguna untuk orang lain...
berguna untuk diri sendiri saja aku belom bisa...

aku belom merasa bisa bahagiakan orang yang aku sayang...
bahagiakan diriku sendiri aku masih binggung....

tp aku ingin bahagiakan orang yang aku sayang sebelom aku bahagiakan diriku sendiri...


hmmm...
penuh...penuh..penuh..otakku penuh dengan berbagai macam pertanyaan yang belom aku bisa jawab...aaagggrrhhhh..................





(sorry klo agak out of topic)
 
HeLLKiNG_666 said:
entahlah aku aja sendiri binggung aku bahagia atau belom...
aku belom menemukan arti hidupku dan untuk apa?

aku belom merasa berguna untuk orang lain...
berguna untuk diri sendiri saja aku belom bisa...

aku belom merasa bisa bahagiakan orang yang aku sayang...
bahagiakan diriku sendiri aku masih binggung....

tp aku ingin bahagiakan orang yang aku sayang sebelom aku bahagiakan diriku sendiri...


hmmm...
penuh...penuh..penuh..otakku penuh dengan berbagai macam pertanyaan yang belom aku bisa jawab...aaagggrrhhhh..................





(sorry klo agak out of topic)
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Jangan terlalu keras dengan diri sendiri... terkadang kebahagian kecil (tanpa kita sadari) bisa sangat berarti.
Kebahagian sendiri tidak ada arti yang tepat; karena kebahagiaan hanya bisa di nikmati secara personal.
Contohnya; saya bahagia banget bisa makan ice cream kesukaan saya di musim panas
Jangan menilai kebahagiaan dengan hal-hal besar.
Mungkin; begitu berjauhan dengan orang tua; dan kemudan bertemu pasti ada rasa bahagia, atau buat yang student, nila inya A pasti bahgia.. jadi nikmati aja bro.
Apalagi buat bro yang bekerja di musik(?) atau sejenisnya, buat pertunjungan yang bagus dan crowd jadi enjoyed, juga suatu kebahagiaan
 
wnks said:
Jangan terlalu keras dengan diri sendiri... terkadang kebahagian kecil (tanpa kita sadari) bisa sangat berarti.
Kebahagian sendiri tidak ada arti yang tepat; karena kebahagiaan hanya bisa di nikmati secara personal.
Contohnya; saya bahagia banget bisa makan ice cream kesukaan saya di musim panas
Jangan menilai kebahagiaan dengan hal-hal besar.
Mungkin; begitu berjauhan dengan orang tua; dan kemudan bertemu pasti ada rasa bahagia, atau buat yang student, nila inya A pasti bahgia.. jadi nikmati aja bro.
Apalagi buat bro yang bekerja di musik(?) atau sejenisnya, buat pertunjungan yang bagus dan crowd jadi enjoyed, juga suatu kebahagiaan
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thanks yach om WNKS atas masukannya...<<3):kiss:mad:-->
 
wnks said:
surely u said that you don't want it to be a loser because you are not; than prove it?
being mature it is not always making decision by your own, it can be also accepting other opinion without losing your own ground.
God is a very good sugestive; although I never believe in that! but you may start with your faith (religions and believeness)
you can pm me if you like and we can talked about your problem see how you handle it!
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OK, I'll try to prove it than solve my problem with my own way...
I hope that will be easy... >:l
 
Bahagia????? Hmm... Nikmati sajalah, hidup ini.. Walaupun masalah datang silih berganti, ku s'lalu coba untuk bangkit dan tersenyum lagi!!! Soalnya, klo hidup gak ada masalah, gak seru kannn????
Ayolah..

Hidup itu sudah susah, jangan tambah dibikin susah!!!

Somebody agree with me???
 
Yukari-san said:
Bahagia????? Hmm... Nikmati sajalah, hidup ini.. Walaupun masalah datang silih berganti, ku s'lalu coba untuk bangkit dan tersenyum lagi!!! Soalnya, klo hidup gak ada masalah, gak seru kannn????
Ayolah..

Hidup itu sudah susah, jangan tambah dibikin susah!!!

Somebody agree with me???
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baguslah... seandainya cara berfikir teman-teman Indonesia sama seperti Yukari-san, pastilah kita bisa bersatu dan bersama-sama memajukan Indonesia.

Karena sekali lagi tidak ada parameter ukuran yang benar dan pasti mengenai kebahagiaan! Enjoy Life.......
 
wnks said:
baguslah... seandainya cara berfikir teman-teman Indonesia sama seperti Yukari-san, pastilah kita bisa bersatu dan bersama-sama memajukan Indonesia.
Karena sekali lagi tidak ada parameter ukuran yang benar dan pasti mengenai kebahagiaan! Enjoy Life.......
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Klo gitu, kenapa gak kita coba aja, buat merubah pola pikir dan bersatu!!!! Hha..!!! (gak segampang itu kalee..)

Yaah.. mudah-mudahan ada banyak orang diluar sana yang memiliki cara menikmati hidup seperti itu.. Meskipun mereka pasti punya cara masing-masing.. Hhe..
 
Bahagia yah sukur....
Lagi gak bahagia yah apa boleh buat...

Hohoh, hidup di dunia itu harus adil...ada saatnya untuk bahagia dan ada saatnya untuk sedih...

Tapi perasaan saat ini :
BAHAGIA
 
Yukari-san said:
Bahagia????? Hmm... Nikmati sajalah, hidup ini.. Walaupun masalah datang silih berganti, ku s'lalu coba untuk bangkit dan tersenyum lagi!!! Soalnya, klo hidup gak ada masalah, gak seru kannn????
Ayolah..

Hidup itu sudah susah, jangan tambah dibikin susah!!!

Somebody agree with me???
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setuju.... mulai sekarang mari kita senyum sepanjang hari....!!!!
 
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